The Body Language Of Attraction - How To Arrange Yourself

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The Body Language Of Attraction - How To Arrange Yourself
You do not need to look like Henry Caville, have a phd in Shakespearean literature, drive an Range Rover, or be James Bond to be appealing to girls. You just need to have something that is much more valuable than any of those things. Something that is constantly with you and constantly giving off signals that are vital for an intimate encounter with a girl: The body language of attraction.

With the right body language, when you go into an area, you will communicate the "I'm a guy, I'm alpha, I'm available, and I know exactly what I'm doing" ambiance to every girl in there. And when you have your target in your sights, you can rapidly and effortlessly convey: "I want you, you attract me, and I would like to get to know you better.".

Girls detect the subtle signals guys emit.

Yes they do! And what's even more, based upon these faint signals, they'll promptly evaluate if you're a prospective mate or some dork primate. So it's time you discovered exactly how best to utilize this to your benefit. And the finest method to benefit from this is to learn the best ways to utilize your body. This is something everybody can master how to do, and can help provide you an edge over chaps who are better looking with bigger biceps and a flashier car!

Your appearance is part of your body language.

Not the appearance you're born with but the way you shape how you look. It is through how you arrange your appearance that you transmit your masculinity to girls. When you see a beautiful girl with an average or below average guy, and you ask her why she finds him appealing, she could say something like: "I don't know. It's just something about him that he has ... like an energy or an aura."

Actually, it's nothing of the sort. In part, it's how a guy dresses that communicates particular things to a girl: the sort of shirt you wear, the pants you put on, the jackets and ties you put on, your hairstyle, the way you shape your facial hair if you have any, the length of your sideburns, your tan, the whiteness of your teeth-- all these aspects contribute to the immediate image girls get of you when they first see you. But even more important than these things is the way you move and carry yourself.

The best ways to move like you're an Alpha.

Move with grace when you move. I'm not talking about a sissy ballerina sort of grace here, but rather an "arrogant" type of grace that will garner attention. In fact, arrogant grace can be directly translated into "macho swagger."

Consider the way Willis, Pitt, and Diesel walk, and you'll get an idea of exactly what this is. It's standing straight with shoulders slightly back and moving with an easy confidence that makes certain to get girl's awareness.

What the heck do I do with these non alpha male hands?

What you shouldn't do is to keep them in your pockets. When you shove your hands in your pockets, it seems like you're hiding something. By the same token, do not cross your arms. Crossed arms make you look guarded and stand-offish.

If you absolutely have to put your dirty little paws in your dirty little pockets, make sure to keep you thumbs outside and hooked on the outside of your pockets.

The thumb symbolizes power and displaying the thumb for all to see suggests confidence. NEVER HIDE YOUR THUMBS, especially from cute girls!

Genital Framing

If you're looking for something to occupy your hands, lock your thumbs in your belt above your pant pockets, with your fingers pointing down to your crotch. If you lean up against a wall or a bar, thrust your hips forward a bit (bear in mind to be subtle!). This is a stance meant to communicate male sexuality.

"Pointing to (framing) your crotch" is what is called genital framing, as made famous by the legendary James Dean. This is a symbol of male virility and power. How many times have you seen this sort of pose on TV or in the movies? Not by the sissy hero, of course, but by the bad boys that girls so often swoon over.

When the bad boys do it, it signals to everybody that: "I'm a threat. I am a dangerous man for a girl to want to be with. I am a guy and I make no apologies for exactly what I want!".

On a smaller scale, this is exactly what you are communicating as well. But in the bigger picture, your goal should be to cultivate an aura of masculinity that will intrigue the available girls around you.

The best ways to lounge like a Boss

First, do not be hesitant to take up space, especially if you are in a busy area. You should constantly convey your boss status in how you stand and ways in which you sit. Stand straight up, shoulders back, legs shoulder-length apart, and hold your ground.

Don't let others crowd you. Too often, guys will shrink their personal bubble in crowded areas so as not to touch others. Do not do this. Make physical contact with those around you and occupy space. This transmits a sort of dominance to others, when they see others giving you the space you want.

When you sit, lounge. Be comfortable. Sling your arm around the back of the chair. Expose your crotch. Lean back. Show you're at home with where you are.

Are you an Alpha or an Extra ?

You can immediately tell who's the alphas and who's the extras. The alphas, through their body language, give off some type of confident gamma ray that girls will detect and become subconsciously attracted to. This sort of "alpha male ray" can be learned and with practice, mastered.

If you want to appeal to the sort of girls that you know you deserve, you MUST master the body language of attraction. Or you can always be an extra and help the alphas to stand out even more.